Jessie the Therapist

This time of year reminds me of all the magic we have around us. The once frozen ground starts to sprout into little buds of green that push their leaves to the sky with an array of rainbow flowers. It serves as a reminder that we can grow and even…

Part 4: Satisfaction For the last section of our Makeover, we will be discussing satisfaction and why it is the most important piece of your sex life. When we talk about satisfaction we are not talking about orgasm. While orgasm can be apart of satisfaction, it is not needed to…

Part 3: Eroticism And now for the section that tends to be the most controversial; eroticism. When we define eroticism in a relationship we are talking about sexual charge and energy. Eroticism is not detached from an emotional relationship, but rather complements and heightens vigor within the sexual connection. Sexual…

Part 2: Pleasure Pleasure is defined as happy satisfaction and enjoyment. Pleasure within the context of sexuality includes sensual and playful touch, not just intercourse. Creating pleasure as a couple creates closeness, intimacy, and warmth. You both must be able to experience pleasurable touch in a comfortable, kind, and trusting…